| What are you to do if your wife wants a divorce and | | | | and helping in this instance is a good first step. |
| you are still deeply in love with her? Your first and | | | | Many wives also feel that their husbands don't listen to |
| strongest impulse may to be to fight her tooth and nail | | | | them. This may be particularly poignant if she's telling |
| on it. Most men would do just about anything to keep | | | | you that she's not happy and wants a divorce and you |
| their family together. However, there's actually a much | | | | continually ignore it. If you want to begin rebuilding your |
| better approach that may actually get you the results | | | | crumbling marriage you must listen to everything your |
| you want which is to keep your wife with you. | | | | wife says and respect it. If she says that she feels a |
| If your wife wants a divorce it's because something in | | | | separation is in order, agree to it. If she wants to seek |
| the relationship isn't working for her anymore. Instead | | | | out counseling, be the first one out the door to go |
| of trying to guess what that might be, you need to sit | | | | there. You need to show her that you want to please |
| down and talk to her about it. If she's not willing to talk | | | | her and that her needs are paramount. Although |
| you need to start paying closer attention to her body | | | | separation or counseling may feel like a first step |
| language. If she seems annoyed by having to do the | | | | towards divorce, it's actually also a first step toward |
| things around the home, perhaps that's part of the | | | | reconciliation. Now is the time to show your wife that |
| issue. Maybe she feels taken for granted. Pitching in | | | | nothing in the world matters more than she does. |