| If you are facing a conflict in your relationship and you | | | | of the issue and you are the one who doesn't want to |
| truly want to save your marriage, divorce shouldn't | | | | even consider the idea of a trial separation, reconsider |
| even be a consideration until you've exhausted all | | | | it now. Many people don't fully realize the power of |
| reconciliation avenues. Marriage is not an easy journey | | | | distance. If your spouse is insistent on moving out, allow |
| and many couples who find themselves at a | | | | it. Appear to accept it. Once they have left, they'll |
| crossroads, simply decide that the best solution is to | | | | realize how much they miss you. This is what you |
| dissolve the relationship. If you still love your spouse | | | | want and can be the basis for rebuilding an even |
| and you want to keep your family intact, you have | | | | stronger relationship once they realize what they risk |
| options. You don't have to settle on a future without | | | | losing. |
| your spouse. There are steps you can take now, with | | | | You must also listen to your spouse if you want to |
| or without your spouse's aid, to strengthen the | | | | save your marriage. Divorce often occurs because |
| marriage and rebuild the lost love. | | | | one partner just doesn't feel valued in the relationship. If |
| In your situation, you may be the only one who wants | | | | he or she needs to vent about you or the relationship, |
| to save your marriage. Divorce may be on the mind of | | | | allow it. Encourage it even. Give them a platform to |
| your spouse and it's painful to hear them talk about | | | | express what they are feeling without fear of being |
| breaking up the family and the relationship. Arguing with | | | | verbally attacked or criticized. This is a very important |
| them non-stop about this is not going to help you to | | | | step towards rebuilding your marriage and putting your |
| reach a healthy conclusion. If you are on opposite ends | | | | family back together. |