| You never expect to hear yourself saying that. When | | | | You have to take the initiative if you want your |
| you first walk down the aisle and become a wife you | | | | husband to reinvest himself emotionally in your |
| do so with visions of a long, healthy and very happy | | | | marriage. There are several things you can do to |
| marriage. That's not always what life has in store for | | | | draw him closer to you again including showing him the |
| you though. You may find, after a few years or even | | | | way you want to be treated. Quite often what |
| months of wedded bliss, that your husband is losing | | | | happens in a relationship is the husband takes his |
| interest and pulling back from you. It's disheartening and | | | | behavior cues from his wife. If she gets busy and her |
| a bit scary when this happens. You're not sure of | | | | interest is no longer focused on him, he'll follow suit and |
| what's on your horizon or if there's anything you can | | | | become engrossed with other things. Start paying |
| do to change things back to the way they used to be | | | | more attention to your husband. Ask him about his day |
| when he loved you and showed it. | | | | or help him with things around the house. Just focus on |
| If your husband has lost interest in you, there's still hope | | | | spending more time with him. You may find he'll follow |
| for your relationship. You shouldn't give up or give in to | | | | your lead and do the same for you. |
| the feelings of loss or confusion. Many marriages go | | | | Virtually every married couple has toyed with the idea |
| through a period where the couple feels disconnected | | | | of having a regular date night. You should push for this |
| from one another. This can happen for any number of | | | | with your spouse. Plan it and then surprise him with it. |
| reasons. Some couples find themselves drifting apart | | | | One on one time is essential for the two of you. You |
| when children arrive, when there is financial burdens or | | | | need to have an opportunity to talk without interruption |
| when work takes over their free time. Their | | | | and to enjoy each other's company. Put the effort in |
| relationship suffers and neither takes steps to bridge | | | | to arrange a date night soon with your husband. He'll |
| the distance. Over time they become less and less | | | | be surprised and likely touched that you'd go to so |
| connected until it reaches a point where it feels like all | | | | much trouble just for him. |
| the love is gone. | | | | |