| My husband doesn't want to spend time with me | | | | risk putting himself in a position where he'd have to talk |
| anymore is something that no woman wants to hear | | | | about the problem. Perhaps he's fearful that it will just |
| herself saying. Marriages aren't always easy and | | | | escalate into a fight yet again. If you believe this is |
| sometimes the two partners can find themselves | | | | contributing to his emotional and physical distance, |
| drifting apart both emotionally and physically. If this | | | | work on finding a compromise now. If you don't, it will |
| sounds like you and your husband, you already know | | | | just continue to eat away at the foundation of the |
| that it's not only confusing, it's depressing too. If you | | | | relationship. |
| love your husband and you want to reclaim the | | | | Another reason why your husband may not want to |
| closeness that you two once shared, you can do that. | | | | spend as much time with you as he used to is he's |
| With the right insight and some patience and | | | | feeling unappreciated. Men need validation in their |
| understanding you can actually get your husband to | | | | relationship just as much as women do. Focus on |
| love you more now than he ever has before. | | | | ensuring that your husband knows how grateful you |
| The very first thing you have to do if your husband | | | | feel that you're his wife. Do things that show him that |
| doesn't want to spend time with you is determine if it's | | | | you love him and thank him when he does things for |
| caused by an ongoing conflict between the two of | | | | you and for the family. A man will always feel closer |
| you. Just as women find it difficult to get over an | | | | to a woman if he knows that she sees him as special. |
| argument, many men are the same way. If there's an | | | | He wants to hear you tell him that he's important to |
| outstanding issue in your marriage that's causing | | | | you. If you start doing this today, it won't take long |
| friction, you need to address it now. Your husband | | | | before you notice a shift in his behavior towards you. |
| may be avoiding you because he just doesn't want to | | | | |