| While many couples spend countless hours together | | | | you to fix your marriage. Even if your spouse is |
| and individually on their marriage counselors couches | | | | reluctant and initially unwilling there is an option for you |
| trying to resolve their personal issues as well as their | | | | to learn and apply it to your marriage. When people |
| marital issues, their marriage continues to slip to a point | | | | get to their wits end they feel like there is no way to |
| of no return. Yes, marriage family counseling has | | | | stop divorce. They convince themselves that divorce |
| helped couples restore their marriage, but the fact is | | | | is the only solution to what feels like a never ending |
| marriage counseling is less often the correct course of | | | | emotional roller coaster of anger, sadness, and |
| action. In counseling the couple has to open up | | | | resentment. But that is simply untrue if you are willing to |
| completely in front of stranger, revealing feelings and | | | | try. |
| thoughts that they have never even shared with their | | | | When we first fall in love we can’t wait to spend |
| spouses, and their therapist is supposed to sit their | | | | the rest of our lives with each other, anything else |
| unbiased and receptive to what is being said. | | | | would be unimaginable. But with time change occurs, |
| Unfortunately, all though the therapist is supposed to be | | | | children are born, and the couple finds that they no |
| neutral on all matters, they are human after all and can | | | | longer have common ground. They lose sight of each |
| end up favoring one spouse over the other. This is not | | | | other as a couple and don’t realize it until it is a real |
| only unfair to the other spouse; it is unproductive to | | | | problem. This drifting apart often times ends with one |
| fixing an already tumultuous marriage. | | | | spouse feeling like they are being emotionally abused |
| With Marriage Fitness you won’t have to sit there | | | | and neglected and the other living in an affectionless |
| and discuss the things that embarrass you or make | | | | marriage. These are all problems Marriage Fitness can |
| you angry. You won’t have to point fingers at each | | | | address. There’s more to marriage than going |
| other and take the blame for issues that may or may | | | | through the motions, there’s more to saving a |
| not be causing your marriage woes. You simply have | | | | marriage than spending endless hours hurting each |
| to be dedicated to making it work and be willing to | | | | other feelings in arguments as well as in a marriage |
| take the time to learn what it is going to take to allow | | | | counseling office. |