| No one goes into their marriage believing that they are | | | | down with your partner and talk about what you both |
| going to become a statistic of divorce. Unfortunately, | | | | are feeling. Agree to listen to one another without |
| almost half of all marriages do end in a separation and | | | | interruption. Take everything they tell you and absorb it. |
| eventual divorce leaving both partners and their | | | | Learn from it and try and be a better spouse. If you |
| children in turmoil. If you feel that you and your partner | | | | both work together to understand one another more |
| are headed down this road, and you don't want the | | | | your marriage will flourish. |
| relationship to end, there is help for you. You can save | | | | You've also got to refocus on your partner's positives |
| a marriage in trouble and in fact, you can rebuild the | | | | and forget about their negatives. If you are determined |
| bond of love so that it's stronger than it's ever been | | | | to save a marriage in trouble, don't always dwell on |
| before. | | | | what it is about your partner that you dislike. It's easy |
| The first step to save a marriage in trouble is to | | | | to let our minds only center on the aspects of our |
| reopen the lines of communication between you and | | | | spouse's personality or behavior that we find |
| your partner. One major problem in many relationships | | | | distasteful. If you continually do this you'll end up losing |
| is the people simply stop talking to each other. This | | | | any love you had for your partner. Celebrate the things |
| happens for a variety of reasons but it leaves both | | | | about them that you love the most and when |
| individuals feeling alone and disrespected. If you and | | | | speaking about them to others, only talk about those |
| your spouse only talk about general things and you | | | | things. This will actually help your state of mind shift to |
| never address the emotional difficulties between you | | | | a more positive place that will benefit not only you but |
| two, there is little help to salvage the relationship. Sit | | | | your spouse and family as well. |