| Most guys who realize that their girl is getting less and | | | | neglecting the simplest rule of the book. Pick up the |
| less interested in being with them will panic a lot and do | | | | phone and call her. Ask how her day was. Tell her |
| stupid things that will exacerbate the situation. I'll be | | | | about something funny you saw on the way to work |
| frank. If she's drifting away from you, the problem is | | | | or university. Tell her you love her (and mean it). Tell |
| communication. It takes two to tango, after all. As long | | | | jokes and reminisce about stuff. Can it be this easy? |
| as you're together, if you don't put in, she'll pull out, she | | | | It is especially important in a long distance relationship, |
| doesn't want to waste time with someone who isn't | | | | because it is all you have. Many mature couples say |
| willing to keep her close. Below are some key signs | | | | that it is what has kept their relationships golden over |
| that she's drifting away from you. | | | | the many years. Hitting your 40th or even 50th |
| | | | anniversary is achievable, if you're simply willing to chat |
| 1. She doesn't call you as much anymore. | | | | once in a while. |
| 2. When you do talk on the phone, it's awkward. | | | | What you chat about doesn't even have to be |
| 3. She isn't as excited to spend "special time" with you. | | | | purposeful. All it has to be is an exchange of words, of |
| 4. She would prefer going out with her girlfriends more | | | | thoughts, of emotions and you will grow to appreciate |
| often over you. | | | | your partner. It is the older, yet most steadfast method |
| 5. She doesn't tell you, "I love you" as much anymore. | | | | of holding a relationship together. Think of it like this. |
| Do you want her back close to you, before it's too | | | | Trust cannot be generated if you have no |
| late? I highly recommend you simply have a talk once | | | | communication. So communication is the crude oil and |
| in a while. To be perfectly honest, this is all it takes to | | | | trust is the refined petrol that powers a relationship into |
| solve this problem. If you don't talk to her at all, you're | | | | the sunset. |